JODY SHAW
JODY SHAW
at some point,
you have to look at yourself.
A Different Take.
"Most people believe change happens when the external situation or other people improve."
The external situation can change entirely but the emotional outcome repeats.
Until the subconscious structure is dismantled, life will continue to reorganise itself around the same patterns of what you are protecting underneath.
Hi, I'm Jody.
"I help you dismantle your repeat patterns, so you can respond to life from an empowered and honest place."
Maintaining your repeat patterns, driven by subconscious programming, conditioning and trauma is one of the greatest travesty's in the human experience.
Without conscious awareness of how you are perpetuating repeat patterns, your subconscious conditioning, programming and trauma will have you believing that you need to resign to substandard circumstances, environments and relationships in life.
Your subconscious can make you irrelevant in your own life. It can make you decay into a flicker of who you are meant to be. It can have you disrespecting yourself and overriding your values to keep you obedient to your desperation for belonging.
It will have you shrinking, hiding, living in fantasy land expectations of others, and a world of distortion. Sitting back idle, missing out on a deeply fulfilling life experience because you are too stifled to live in integrity with your truth.
Your subconscious mind will continue to run repeat patterns through your experiences, until you recognise the profound opportunities they present.
If you can already see your repeat patterns, you have come to the right place.
"This is not for the avoidant and those resigned to exist at the whim of others emotions."
YOUR REPEAT PATTERNS.
"You are the common denominator."
You have done "all the work" but nothing changes and you can see your part in your own dysfunction
You raise the same issue in relationships but can't accept what you are repeatedly being shown
You see the truth but continue to negotiate with potential
You make yourself responsible for stabilising the emotional environment around you
You can feel yourself shapeshifting into a different persona for each relationship
You are terrified of abandonment, rejection and being excluded
You know you were born for something great but you don't know how to embody it
You have a desire to take the reigns and be responsible for your life, no matter what is happening around you
WORK WITH ME.
12 Week Immersion
12 Weeks together in a container format, including sessions focused on examining and dismantling the structure shaping your life and real time proximity support through voice messaging, as things unfold.
This is the deeper work to give space to what arises, designed to meet you where you are at and for your individual experience. The depth of awareness sets you up to stop the unending engagement in surface level modalities. This is where you begin feeling more empowered in your life experience and learn how to respond in a sovereign and aligned way in day to day life and relationships. This is your space at your pace.
Targeted Session
A focused 90 minute session designed to bring clarity to a specific dynamic or recurring situation. Or to continue on where we left off.
WHY PEOPLE
WORK WITH ME.
They feel conflicted and resistant to reality but know they are playing a part to keep it going
They know the relationships or circumstances are not changing and are likely never going to but they cling on for dear life
They know the dynamics are repeating and they are the common denominator
They feel like they have tried everything but are still blaming external people and influences
They know they are exhausted from carrying emotional weight
They know they cannot keep living with the same internal conflict and are finally ready to take charge because they know the clock is ticking on their life
At this point they are not looking for more information
They are ready to go all in with the truth
They know their kids are watching
DYNAMICS I'VE WORKED WITH.
Repeat relationship themes
Emotionally unavailable partners
Family system entanglement and loyalty binds
Fantasy expectations of a "Soul Mate" saviour relationship
Embodying ancestral patterns and resignation of fate
High-conflict separation and co-parenting
Navigating the aftermath of major life disruption
Having a life that appears stable but is misaligned
People pleasing, manipulation and resentment
Childhood programming, conditioning and trauma
Chronic lack of self worth
Adult issues with parents
Betrayal Trauma
Addiction
Parenting
WHAT THE WORK IS.
"Facing the reality you are creating
for yourself."
The repeat pattern
The wounding it protects
YOUR behaviour that maintains it
YOUR distorted perceptions that keep it alive
The truth YOU keep negotiating with
The healing YOU resist because of fear of having to make changes
"Real change occurs when you finally face yourself enough that participation is no longer protective."
WHO THE
WORK IS FOR.
"Those who value
truth over comfort."
Those who are tired of their own avoidance and ambivalence
Are capable of self examination
without being defensive
Are exhausted with constant analysing
Are sick of blaming the rest of the world and other people for their choices
Can tolerate discomfort without collapse
Want deep, structural change
based on the truth of who they are
Sick of surface psychology and personal development fluff
WHAT CHANGES.
"When you stop negotiating with
the truth."
The repeat patterns lose traction because you can see that what you've always done was a big part, if not all, of the problem
The familiar dynamic is no longer enticing, in fact it is a major turn off
You stop doing the same thing and getting the same results
You realise it isn't them,
it is what you repeatedly do with what they are repeatedly
showing you
You respond instead of react because you are more solid within yourself
and grounded
You start living with truth and integrity, and make aligned decisions
You stop all the protective manipulation to keep yourself belonging because self sacrifice is no longer an option
You stop performing, shapeshifting, being "nice" and fake just to fit in
You become the same you in every environment and have so much more energy because of it
You become more of the truth of
who you are and stop wasting your life on superficial nonsense
You communicate more clearly, with honesty and you don't flake or project when someone says something you don't want to hear
You stop being offended by everyone and everything
Aligned and emotionally mature people start to appear in your life because they resonate with the more emotionally mature version of you
You past loses grip on your subconsious
"When your subconscious structure in a repeat pattern is resolved, it no longer requires protection. Truth becomes the natural response."
You do the same thing, you get the same results.